Absolutely right to comment Tom in anyway you see fit, that's what forums are about, having an opinion and expressing it right or wrong. My post is or wasn't a sly dig at anyone as you've read it, the people that do know me will tell you if I've got anything to say I'll say it directly and not beat around the bush making inuendoes, that involves constructive team critisism as well.
I will never critisise individuals for running the line, like I said in one of my other post's 'Who'd be a linesman at this level?'. What I will critisise is the people that do it out of the goodness of their heart or because they've been pressganged into it and really don't know what they're doing.
My post was not to critisise either Barry B and more importantly Dan's dad over a decision he made, but just to highlight that it is a major problem at this level of football. I took Barry b's post to indicate that the issue with throwing the flag down over an offside was something and nothing, borne out by 'It's football and you get it every week in the Premier league'. I see it as more than that, rightly or wrongly, which is why I focused on just the one point. I've been guilty in the past myself in indicating to the officials that they've got it wrong. Fact is, you can't do it at this level or the club itself could suffer.
That aside, who's listening and watching what goes on? Well the kids of course, heavens knows what they think sometimes and I've seen it first hand where a kid openly defies the referee to the point of the ref bringing on the coach to help deal and defuse the situation. What they see and hear they think it's ok to do and say, and to get away with it.
Dan's dad, it could be one of the longest threads recorded on here, wish more of the others were the same, everyone I'm sure has an opinion to offer.
You're right I did explain about the offside rule and stated in brief what it meant, that wasn't aimed at at you or Barry b in particular but for the benefit of of lots of people who may have heard 'offside' but not know exactly what it was. How can you explain to someone who has a basic knowledge of football, i.e. maybe some mums whos knowledge extends to 'get the ball between the sticks', that a player can be in an offside position yet not be offside? The only way I see it is to try and explain it.
To be honest Dan's dad, I was neither backing nor critisising you in my post. I couldn't possibly have done that because Barry b didn't offer enough information about the situation. Again I just responded to the general situation and reaffirming that this is not an isolated instance or problem. Take a look at one of my posts refering to this specifically, my views haven't changed yet.
There really wasn't need to apologise but it is nice of you to see that I wasn't attacking anyone, just trying to make a point. Also glad to see that you will run the line again,

not sure if a game can go ahead at this level without linesmen? No one is going to get it right 100% of the time but if someone flags offside from a throw in then I'm sorry, they just should not be doing it.
I have to agree that calling the officials 'Cheats' is way over the top, heard it many times at Rooks games and just shows a lack of composure from some spectators, league officials wouldn't put up with it, why should the amateurs?
The opposition are hardly likely to highlight the incident given their spectator was involved. They may well be the best team in the league, that can be justified by their league position and as for getting 'stuck in', not even going there.
Thanks for replying especially in the way that you have, I misunderstand sometimes and it's not always easy to put the feelings and emotion of the moment into words so that it looks and sounds right.
What I will say if people don't already know, is that if I'm making a critisism or calling someone out you will not be left in any doubt about it.
We might not know everything folks but we all have opinions, get them on here in the forums.
